| Do you know a sexy, strong woman at your | | | | goals right up to showing you the door. |
| place of work? Perhaps she's a manager or | | | | |
| business owner. Maybe she's a salesperson | | | | One other thing you'll find with these strong |
| that works with your company or she | | | | women is that you'll get Tested ( more often |
| represents a vendor. Do you want to know a | | | | and with greater intensity. This challenge is |
| little secret about her? She's very likely | | | | simply to prove that you're still the |
| demure and submissive in the bedroom! | | | | powerful guy you appeared to be during the |
| | | | initial approach. It may last well into the |
| What's that? How can that be? She's a real | | | | relationship by the way! If you falter on |
| ball-buster during the day! | | | | these Tests, you might just lose her |
| | | | completely. |
| Sure, that's her persona during the day, but | | | | |
| studies show that the vast majority of women | | | | So, after all this work, what's the benefit |
| shift roles when it comes to their emotional | | | | to you? Simple - a devoted, loyal, willing |
| sexual lives; with a distinct direction: from | | | | and happy girlfriend! Someone that will |
| dominance to submission. This seems like a | | | | easily take your lead anywhere you want to go |
| strange dichotomy, but stick with me here. | | | | be it in the relationship or in the bedroom. |
| | | | These women are very special and any man that |
| While many women are terrified of others | | | | can win her is in for a real treat. She tends |
| knowing this fact, most women prefer a | | | | to be sexually adventurous, creative and |
| submissive bedroom role. I'm not going to go | | | | enthusiastic - more so than most women. |
| into all the science behind this, but it's an | | | | She'll continue to give you reasons to trust |
| important thing to understand if you're | | | | her because she is paying you back for being |
| actually attracted to one of these | | | | the man of her dreams. She'll even become the |
| "strong-by-day, submissive-by-night" types of | | | | woman you've dreamed of all your life simply |
| women. | | | | because she wants to make you happy. |
| | | | |
| Let's say that you want to approach one of | | | | You just have to make it past all the initial |
| these girls. How do you do it? First, if | | | | suspicion and challenge you'll get; but trust |
| you're already the CEO or VP of your company, | | | | me, it's worth it. |
| you have a much stronger chance of being | | | | |
| accepted than if not. It's unfortunate, but | | | | Why do these strong women want to be |
| the stronger a woman is (and the higher her | | | | submissive in the bedroom and the |
| position within a company) the more men | | | | relationship? There are many subtle answers |
| she'll cut out of her "potential date" list. | | | | but most of it comes right down to natural |
| That doesn't mean you have no chance however. | | | | wiring. Feeling safe and secure in a |
| | | | relationship is a critical element for all |
| The approach here is one of strength and | | | | women. If you think about this, isn't just |
| confidence - much more so than other women. | | | | about every aspect of men's relationships |
| The reason is that these women want to be | | | | with women involved with proving this |
| with men they perceive as even stronger than | | | | security? You bet it is! |
| they are. This is a critical element in the | | | | |
| approach because it has to be just as strong | | | | Now, obviously this doesn't apply to every |
| and confident. If you waiver here, you're not | | | | strong woman - especially if her strength is |
| going to get a second chance. | | | | born out of fear of weakness; but it's true |
| | | | of most. You can safely approach strong women |
| Your approach isn't one of "Hey, want to go | | | | with the belief that they're looking for an |
| have drinks after dinner?" Instead, you want | | | | even stronger man so that they can melt into |
| to say something like, "I don't know what | | | | the comfort of the willing, submissive role - |
| your plans are for Friday, but cancel them. | | | | until proven otherwise. |
| I'm taking you out for drinks. I'll pick you | | | | |
| up at 8 sharp." This is a very powerful | | | | Best regards... |
| position to take, but trust me; it's the | | | | |
| correct one for this girl. | | | | Have a love, dating, relationship, sex or man |
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| You have to be able to carry this confidence | | | | to: for answers. For more information about |
| into dating too. When you date a strong woman | | | | my books, "Being a Man in a Woman's World |
| be ready to show even more strength and have | | | | (TM) " (volumes I & II), and other products |
| more direction than her! This is a tall order | | | | visit: Check out the discussion group at: |
| for many men, but having clear, concise goals | | | | |
| and an understanding of these rules helps to | | | | Copyright (c) 2006, Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| make it easier. Be goal-oriented and know | | | | |
| what you want with her. If you don't, she's | | | | All rights reserved. |
| liable to walk all over you and impose her | | | | |