| Article title: Giving and Receiving
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| | client's vibration.
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| If true selfishness leads to
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| | Feeling good while another feels horrible
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| selflessness, then perhaps receiving must
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| | almost seems insulting, like the
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| come before giving.
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| | white-gloved aristocrat who refuses to
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| In order to give, one must first receive.
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| | get his hands dirty while others do all
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| If you are not yourself feeling joy and
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| | the work. However, that feeling of
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| love, what you are giving to another may
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| | inappropriateness is just the result of
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| not be of much value. In other words,
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| | non-matching frequencies. It certainly is
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| it's important to feel good yourself
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| | true that in a roomful of sad people
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| before you try to help another! This is a
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| | there is vibrational "pressure" to feel
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| little fact which I have often
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| | sad as well, but that is only because the
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| overlooked, and which has caused me some
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| | amplitude of that signal is very powerful
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| painful set-downs. I have noticed that
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| | indeed. In other words, there is nothing
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| when I'm purely resonating to well-being,
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| | inevitable about feeling crummy even
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| others come to me voluntarily and are
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| | though everyone around you feels that
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| really interested in what I have to say.
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| | way. Every person is sovereign in his or
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| When I set a vibrational example to
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| | her own experience, so it possible (and
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| others, there is an instinctive, and
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| | desirable) to keep your balance when
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| positive, response. But when I'm helping
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| | others have lost theirs. Once you show
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| because I feel that it's required, or
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| | yourself you can do it, and notice the
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| when I'm not really into it, or when I'm
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| | positive results which appertain, you'll
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| trying to "fix" someone, I'm not really
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| | never feel guilty about maintaining your
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| very effective. I wind up bringing others
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| | positive vibe even when confronting
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| down to my level.
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| | tragedy.
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| Receiving before giving (as I'm defining
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| | The subtle energy which I've been calling
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| it) doesn't mean refusing to love another
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| | life force energy may have its physical
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| until they love you first, or declining
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| | counterpart in theoretical physics. Some
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| to give Uncle Harold a birthday present
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| | frontier scientists believe that space is
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| this year because he forgot yours last
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| | not empty at all, but a seething
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| year. It doesn't mean grabbing as much of
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| | cauldron, or flux, of virtual particles,
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| the pie as you can before anyone else.
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| | and have called it the 'active vacuum' or
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| All of these actions are based on a
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| | 'quantum particle flux.' Some scientists
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| consciousness of scarcity and lack, and
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| | have estimated that there is
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| are guaranteed to bring more scarcity
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| | theoretically enough energy in a cubic
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| into your life.
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| | centimeter of the vacuum to run all of
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| The receiving I'm talking about is
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| | the industries on earth for many years.
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| vibrational. Just as a battery cannot
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| | In this theoretical model, the planet
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| provide power without first being
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| | earth is surrounded by energy which may
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| charged, a person cannot give effectively
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| | eventually be tapped and utilized. In
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| unless he or she is feeling positive
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| | this model, we live in an open system,
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| emotion. Consciousness interfaces with
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| | not a closed one.
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| life force energy, batteries interface
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| | A good example of a closed system is a
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| with electromagnetic energy!
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| | typical electrical circuit. Electrical
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| The feeling of giving is just a
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| | generation is accomplished by constantly
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| connection to or allowance of life force
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| | feeding the generator with more energy as
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| energy. It results when you feel
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| | the source dipole is destroyed by the
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| prosperous and abundant yourself. When
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| | back emf of the spent electrons in the
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| you feel fulfilled, you just naturally
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| | closed circuit. A closed system like this
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| want to share with others.
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| | always requires more energy input than is
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| Receiving has less to do with physical
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| | output. A battery, even if it is
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| objects than it does with a state of
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| | rechargeable, will eventually drain and
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| being. The difficulty is that we've been
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| | be come useless.
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| taught how difficult it is to feel good,
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| | An example of an open system is a
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| and how easy it is to feel rotten, but
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| | windmill or a waterwheel which can take
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| it's just the opposite! Feeling good is
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| | huge amounts of 'free' energy from the
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| the default - all you have to do is open
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| | environment. "Free" energy doesn't mean
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| up to the universal ocean of life force
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| | violation of the law of conservation of
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| energy that surrounds you.
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| | energy. It just means you tap into the
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| Physical objects are often used as
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| | energy which exists in the active
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| substitutes for that connection to
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| | environment, so you get more energy out
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| source. The giving and receiving of
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| | than you put in. A water wheel, for
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| presents makes it easy to feel good, for
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| | example, uses the flow of a river to turn
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| when looking at something pleasing
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| | a paddle and generate electricity. A
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| outside yourself, it is easier to
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| | windmill uses the power of the wind. You
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| remember the inherently joyful person
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| | have to put an initial energy investment
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| that's hiding inside.
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| | of course to build the paddle wheel or
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| However, like the guy who says one thing
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| | windmill, but once you've done that you
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| and does another, material objects may
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| | have a continuous source of power.
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| not be an accurate representation of our
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| | Whether or not it is possible to extract
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| true feelings. For example, Aunt Hilda
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| | energy in usable form from the vacuum,
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| gives you a card on your anniversary, now
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| | all beings have the ability to tap into
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| you feel obligated to reciprocate. You
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| | the subtle energy stream of life force
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| don't really want to, but you do because
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| | and become an amplifier of it, because
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| it's polite. To you, sending a card
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| | consciousness interfaces directly with
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| represents an obligation because Hilda is
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| | it. This energy stream has also been
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| not one of your favorite relatives.
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| | called prana, or chi, and has been
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| Interestingly, when viewing things from
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| | understood by almost every culture that
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| the perspective of our vibrational model,
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| | has ever existed on planet earth. Access
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| the card itself will have little effect
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| | to this energy is free and effortless,
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| on your relationship with Hilda. The
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| | and it doesn't require complicated
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| non-local characteristics of vibrational
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| | machinery or government funding!
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| interaction suggest that Hilda is not
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| | Your supply of happiness, joy, or well
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| likely to view your gift with enthusiasm
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| | being depends only on how much of it you
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| if you have sent it with the vibration of
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| | ask for and how much you allow in.
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| "I'm only doing this because I have to."
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| | Happiness, joy, well being, or any
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| In other words, the physical object is
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| | positive emotion is not a depletable
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| less important than your vibrational
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| | resource. It's free energy that can be
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| orientation.
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| | tapped into at any time.
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| This may seem like a strange and even
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| | How do you tap in? By opening up and
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| delusional statement, but if you
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| | asking for it. Everything in the universe
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| carefully examine your own relationships
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| | is composed of this energy. The human
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| from the viewpoint of consciousness and
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| | energy field is a field of well being,
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| energy flows, it may begin to make sense.
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| | and everybody has one. Meditation, for
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| The kind of receiving I'm talking about
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| | example, is just a process of stopping
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| is not physical, it's energetic. Of
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| | the flow of "junk thought" and becoming
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| course the physical object is very
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| | receptive to your personal subtle energy
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| important, simply because it's tangible.
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| | field. It's not any more complicated than
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| But physical objects do not determine the
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| | that! Receiving your full complement of
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| way we feel about ourselves or about
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| | life force energy is as simple as
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| others. When Beauregard Clifton Densmore
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| | thinking and doing things that make you
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| IVth receives a new car for his 16th
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| | feel good. There are a BILLION reasons
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| birthday, he is very upset. "But mumsy,"
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| | not to, so just ignore them. (You don't
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| he complains, "I specifically requested
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| | get into trouble when you ignore the bad
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| the blue Bentley, not the grey one!" I
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| | stuff, because it becomes deactivated
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| remember one of my old chums in grade
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| | vibrationally within you).
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| school got a new bike. He thought it was
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| | On planet earth there are lots of "Now
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| awesome, but his parents were upset
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| | I'm supposed to's" and "Now I have to's"
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| because the bike was a gift from his
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| | that others have decided are good for
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| uncle, with whom they'd had an argument.
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| | you. But you are not a cog in society's
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| Same object, two entirely different
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| | wheel! You are a sovereign, independent
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| reactions!
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| | being capable of deciding for yourself
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| "Receiving must come before giving" just
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| | what's best for you.
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| means that it is helpful to first feel
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| | A vibration of well being and abundance
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| the love before you outflow. And if you
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| | can only attract manifestations which
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| aren't feeling very loving, then your
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| | mirror it. Therefore, a focus on well
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| giving is probably not going to provide a
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| | being MUST bring forth a positive
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| lot of comfort on the other end.
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| | response from the universe, a response
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| In order to give effectively you must
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| | which benefits you, and everyone else as
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| communicate effectively, and in order to
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| | well. This is true for an individual, or
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| do that you have to be real to the other
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| | a whole planet full of people. In other
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| person; in other words, you have to be in
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| | words, no harm can possibly come to
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| vibrationally proximity. If you want to
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| | another if you receive something from a
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| help someone in grief you can't walk in
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| | positive vibration of well being. If our
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| whistling a happy tune. However, it is
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| | brother has been in perfect health all of
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| possible, and necessary (like Jill in the
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| | his life, do we accuse him of depriving
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| previous chapter) to maintain a firm
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| | someone else of health? It sounds
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| connection to source while accessing the
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| | ridiculous, but that is the sort of
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| lower emotional levels. In fact, that is
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| | mind-set that exists on our planet! If
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| the only way to raise tone, for without
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| | Stephen Hawking is a genius, do we tell
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| establishing a vibrational potential
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| | him not to hog all of the intelligence?
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| there can be no movement up the scale.
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| | These examples are exaggerations, but
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| This is counseling at its very best!
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| | they serve to illustrate the idea that
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| (This is the system that Dr. Rosenberg
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| | although mankind is very good at dreaming
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| uses in his Non-Violent Communication
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| | up more and more ways to amplify
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| methodology). In other words, it is up to
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| | scarcity, the universe contains an
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| you to be the positive pole in the
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| | infinity of abundance. As with health and
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| relationship.
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| | clarity, so too with prosperity, no
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| It turns out that ALL help is vibrational
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| | matter what form it takes.
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| emotional help. For example, you join a
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| | "If everyone on earth asked for and
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| group which passes out food to the needy.
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| | received abundance, all of our resources
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| This is a very helpful activity, but
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| | would quickly be exhausted, and pollution
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| without a vibrational movement on the
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| | would destroy our planet." That's if the
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| part of the recipients up the scale,
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| | status quo (fossil fuels) continues.
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| conditions for them will not change. You
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| | However, the reason we have scarce fossil
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| will constantly be catching fish, instead
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| | fuels is a consciousness which mirrors
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| of teaching how to fish. This again is a
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| | scarcity into the physical universe. When
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| simple application of the Law of
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| | that consciousness shifts to one of
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| Vibration and the Law of 'like attracts
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| | prosperity, cleaner and more efficient
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| like.' Help in the form of physical
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| | sources of energy will be developed in
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| assistance only postpones the inevitable
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| | response. It is silly to use the status
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| vibrational reckoning, for life
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| | quo to argue for the impossibility of a
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| experiences (Flows 1 - 3) are determined
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| | shift in consciousness, when it is a
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| by what occurs on Flow 0.
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| | state of consciousness which is
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| Before giving, you have to fill your tank
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| | responsible for the status quo!
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| first.
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| | Is it really "better to give than to
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| When you receive, however, you do not
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| | receive?"
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| deprive another.
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| | Giving without first receiving drains a
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| It's always possible to fill up at the
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| | person's reserves and causes stress. And
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| gas station of positive emotion without
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| | it's no wonder that it does, for the idea
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| harming anyone else. You don't have to
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| | that it is better to give than to receive
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| come cash in hand and exchange for your
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| | is unbalanced. Receiving automatically
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| share. It's not possible to run out of
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| | opens the energy stream not only for you,
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| life force energy, so gorge yourself. The
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| | but for everyone else. Have you ever been
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| better you feel, the more valuable is
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| | in the presence of someone truly joyful?
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| your service to others.
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| | It just feels so good! That is what
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| It is always appropriate to feel good, no
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| | happens when a person connects to the
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| matter the circumstances.
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| | energy of life.
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| Some feel that it is inappropriate to
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| | The primary attitude should be to allow
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| feel happiness when others are sad. Some
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| | one's self to freely receive, which
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| counselors feel that in order to be there
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| | allows giving from a sense of joy and
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| for the client, they must feel the
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| | love. Receiving must come before giving.
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| client's pain, but this only serves to
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| | Even in a closed system, a battery cannot
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| stick both client and practitioner in the
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| | supply energy unless it is charged.
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