| Rejection is one of the most feared concepts | | | | |
| of men. In fact, survey show that almost 73% | | | | 3. Pour out what you feel |
| of men who were interviewed in a recent study | | | | |
| conducted by a certain psychological clinic | | | | The problem with most guys is that they are |
| in the U.S. show how men abhor rejections. | | | | so constrained on what they feel that they |
| | | | are limited to how they can pour out their |
| However, some psychologists contend that men | | | | feelings. In turn, the feelings linger on and |
| are more afraid of being dumped by their | | | | continue to thrive inside and cause further |
| partners than by being rejected in the first | | | | heartaches. |
| stage of courtship and dating. This is | | | | |
| because men have already developed a strong | | | | Drink if you must with your buddies just to |
| bond with his partner that it makes the | | | | get rid of that bitterness. Once you were |
| adjustment a little harder. | | | | able to get rid of it emotionally, chances |
| | | | are, it would be easier for you to get rid of |
| So even if some girls appear to be so sweet | | | | it totally. |
| and helpless, there are still many of them | | | | |
| who can have the guts and the courage to dump | | | | 4. Try to avoid everything that has something |
| any guy even if they have been good to them. | | | | to do with her |
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| The reason? It is so varied that nobody could | | | | If it means not to eat on the same restaurant |
| clearly identify the common reasons of most | | | | that you both used to hang out r avoiding her |
| women who ditch guy on an instant. | | | | friends, then, do it. The only way to get |
| | | | over a girl is to forget everything about |
| So for those who have been in this kind of | | | | her. If not, you will just keep on |
| relationship and have been in this kind of | | | | reminiscing endlessly on how you two were |
| situation, here are some tips that you need | | | | before and how she used to say she loves you. |
| to know in order to rule out the girl who | | | | |
| once made your heart melt and now broke your | | | | 5. Never try to get what you have given here |
| heart: | | | | |
| | | | It is a childish act. Besides, you will only |
| 1. Stop adoring her | | | | have more reasons to remember her if you will |
| | | | see those things that you have meticulously |
| If you continue on adoring her, paying close | | | | saved for just to give it to her. |
| attention to the memories she has left behind | | | | |
| like her pictures, things will just be worst. | | | | 6. Have fun with your friends! |
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| What matters most is that you should learn to | | | | It is not the end of the world. If you are |
| understand that it is over between the two of | | | | hurt with what happened, just consider it as |
| you and your life must go on without her. | | | | a lesson well learned. What is important is |
| | | | that you still have your friends to empathize |
| The point here is that there is no sense in | | | | with you. |
| giving all the attention that she used to | | | | |
| deserve. It is different now, and by giving | | | | Have fun. Get a life! |
| her the same adoration that you used to give | | | | |
| her would only mean trouble. | | | | The bottom line is that men should not drool |
| | | | longer on women who have dumped them, |
| 2. Close contact | | | | especially for no reasons at all. What |
| | | | matters most is to start from where you have |
| In order to break away from her realm, it is | | | | left off and begin a new and better life |
| best to eliminate any ways of contacting her. | | | | without her. |
| Do not call her, get rid of her number. There | | | | |
| is no point in calling her just to ask how | | | | As they say, there are many fishes in the |
| she is doing. You will just appear like an | | | | ocean. You can start diving for the big one |
| old dog who begs helplessly for milk. | | | | later and save it for the feast. The |
| | | | important thins is not to jump to a new |
| The best thing to do is to close any means of | | | | relationship too soon. Try to enjoy life |
| contact like emails, phone calls, snail | | | | first. Keep in mind that the ratio of men to |
| mails, and even text messages through her | | | | women is 1:10. |
| cell phone. | | | | |