| Rejection is one of the most feared concepts of | | | | contact like emails, phone calls, snail mails, and even |
| men. In fact, survey show that almost 73% of men | | | | text messages through her cell phone. |
| who were interviewed in a recent study conducted | | | | 3. Pour out what you feel |
| by a certain psychological clinic in the U.S. show how | | | | The problem with most guys is that they are so |
| men abhor rejections. | | | | constrained on what they feel that they are limited |
| However, some psychologists contend that men are | | | | to how they can pour out their feelings. In turn, the |
| more afraid of being dumped by their partners than | | | | feelings linger on and continue to thrive inside and |
| by being rejected in the first stage of courtship and | | | | cause further heartaches. |
| dating. This is because men have already developed a | | | | Drink if you must with your buddies just to get rid of |
| strong bond with his partner that it makes the | | | | that bitterness. Once you were able to get rid of it |
| adjustment a little harder. | | | | emotionally, chances are, it would be easier for you |
| So even if some girls appear to be so sweet and | | | | to get rid of it totally. |
| helpless, there are still many of them who can have | | | | 4. Try to avoid everything that has something to do |
| the guts and the courage to dump any guy even if | | | | with her |
| they have been good to them. | | | | If it means not to eat on the same restaurant that |
| The reason? It is so varied that nobody could clearly | | | | you both used to hang out r avoiding her friends, |
| identify the common reasons of most women who | | | | then, do it. The only way to get over a girl is to |
| ditch guy on an instant. | | | | forget everything about her. If not, you will just |
| So for those who have been in this kind of | | | | keep on reminiscing endlessly on how you two were |
| relationship and have been in this kind of situation, | | | | before and how she used to say she loves you. |
| here are some tips that you need to know in order | | | | 5. Never try to get what you have given here |
| to rule out the girl who once made your heart melt | | | | It is a childish act. Besides, you will only have more |
| and now broke your heart: | | | | reasons to remember her if you will see those things |
| 1. Stop adoring her | | | | that you have meticulously saved for just to give it |
| If you continue on adoring her, paying close attention | | | | to her. |
| to the memories she has left behind like her pictures, | | | | 6. Have fun with your friends! |
| things will just be worst. | | | | It is not the end of the world. If you are hurt with |
| What matters most is that you should learn to | | | | what happened, just consider it as a lesson well |
| understand that it is over between the two of you | | | | learned. What is important is that you still have your |
| and your life must go on without her. | | | | friends to empathize with you. |
| The point here is that there is no sense in giving all | | | | Have fun. Get a life! |
| the attention that she used to deserve. It is different | | | | The bottom line is that men should not drool longer |
| now, and by giving her the same adoration that you | | | | on women who have dumped them, especially for no |
| used to give her would only mean trouble. | | | | reasons at all. What matters most is to start from |
| 2. Close contact | | | | where you have left off and begin a new and better |
| In order to break away from her realm, it is best to | | | | life without her. |
| eliminate any ways of contacting her. Do not call her, | | | | As they say, there are many fishes in the ocean. |
| get rid of her number. There is no point in calling her | | | | You can start diving for the big one later and save it |
| just to ask how she is doing. You will just appear like | | | | for the feast. The important thins is not to jump to a |
| an old dog who begs helplessly for milk. | | | | new relationship too soon. Try to enjoy life first. |
| The best thing to do is to close any means of | | | | Keep in mind that the ratio of men to women is 1:10. |