| Let's get started. Getting a girl of your | | | | alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the |
| dreams is much like getting the car of your | | | | girl offers you and for making you smile. |
| dream. But unlike a car which you can always | | | | |
| bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 | | | | In your day to day talks, share your dreams, |
| percent discount in courting the girl of your | | | | your world, and every aspect of your life |
| dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be | | | | with your girl. Always dream with her, build |
| discounted, you dearly are in love with her | | | | with her, and always cheer her on and |
| and your feelings for her can only be | | | | encourage her. Tell your girl how you always |
| communicated not by the words of the mouth, | | | | think about her even when you try not to |
| but by the words of the heart. Getting the | | | | think about her. Let the girl know that she's |
| girl actually depends on how big your heart | | | | your first thing in the morning and the last |
| is - faint heart, never won fair lady. | | | | thing when you go to bed at night. |
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| The first dating idea for any man is to make | | | | Her knowing that you were thinking of her |
| a good impression. In your doing so, you | | | | when you slipped beneath the softness of your |
| don't have to talk, dress or do the common | | | | blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet |
| things that all the Toms do to get a decent | | | | dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her |
| girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you | | | | heart will sing your name all the year round. |
| need. Be a man of his own style. Dress | | | | |
| decently - indecency can make one be mistaken | | | | You have to be creative and constructive to |
| for arrogance; watch your language - obscene | | | | keep girl's interest in you so full of life. |
| language gives the impression of immaturity, | | | | I remember one time I told my girlfriend to |
| being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good | | | | be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We |
| habits - don't drink or smoke like any other | | | | then sat opposite each other on the table and |
| loser. | | | | started sharing our feelings for each other |
| | | | using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to |
| How to make her fall in love with you? Take | | | | be some fun. There was also this time that we |
| your time. Add some romance to your dating | | | | were in the library and we decided we are not |
| style. When in College I had a crush on the | | | | going to speak to each other verbal, so I |
| most beautiful lady in our first year lot. | | | | wrote a love note on a paper and passed it |
| Though all senior guys were out to get that | | | | across the table to her, she replied and on |
| girl, I managed to divert her attention from | | | | and on we carried on our love on paper |
| the other guys. I wrote her three letters | | | | conversation till we almost exhausted a whole |
| without disclosing my identity and slid into | | | | rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that |
| her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours | | | | some guys sited with us on the table were |
| Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained | | | | enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such |
| the meaning of her name, this I got by | | | | are the things that made the girl embrace my |
| playing around with the initials of her name | | | | world. I remember her suggesting that we play |
| to make meaning. The second was a funny | | | | deaf and dump two years after we broke up, |
| message that could only be read backwards and | | | | can you imagine that? |
| it was all about her physique and her | | | | |
| smartness. In the third letter I told the | | | | Never fail to phone her, even when she least |
| girl to be ready to receive a rose flower | | | | expects it. I once called some girl that I |
| from her admirer, but only if she could be | | | | was interested in at four o'clock in the |
| kind enough to phone him using a number that | | | | morning. When inquiring of what I was doing |
| I had included in the letter. The girl did | | | | up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth |
| phone me that very night, and her first words | | | | heaven, where people think of their loved |
| to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the | | | | ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing |
| story of our love affair came to be. Later | | | | early the next morning, she was at my door |
| she told me that was so creative of me, no | | | | with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how |
| one had approached her in that manner. I made | | | | many dates you take her, don't make any elbow |
| her fall in love with me and made a date in | | | | - exceeding moves after any date, just drop |
| the romantic manner. | | | | her home and with a friendly handshake, wish |
| | | | her good night. Don't kiss her when she |
| Befriending and understanding the girl you | | | | expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman |
| are out to get is the next important thing. | | | | will be earned on how patient you are with |
| This is what I also did. You have to | | | | her when it comes to such matters as kissing |
| understand that as a lady, she loves to be | | | | her and accessing her inner graces. |
| loved, adores to be adored and needs to be | | | | |
| needed. This will move you closer to the girl | | | | The writing is on the wall that you want her, |
| and you'll get to know what she's into, what | | | | but you can't have her just yet. Increase |
| she likes and dislikes, and what her style | | | | your demand. Try to show her that men are |
| is. Love is built upon friendship and it | | | | also hard to get at times. Make her realize |
| always leaves individuals better off having | | | | that when she feels a little dizzy, a little |
| known each other should they break up. I and | | | | tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot |
| my College steady were to break some time | | | | bored and very much cold, she's actually |
| later but to date, we are the best of | | | | missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be |
| buddies. Be sure that bringing out the | | | | so much into you and since love is truthful |
| selflessness friend in you will make her | | | | and is characterized by open and honest |
| create room for you in her heart. | | | | communication, honestly promise her your |
| | | | everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and |
| A shoulder to lean on and some good friend | | | | your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove |
| that she can always turn to is all that a | | | | to her that you'll always be there for her, |
| lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be | | | | to listen and to hold her hand, and that |
| helpful and supportive. Be that friend who | | | | you'll always do your best to make her happy, |
| rekindles her zeal of hardworking and | | | | and feel loved. |
| restoring hope back into her life when she | | | | |
| looses hope. This above all other things will | | | | Remember, patience is the key to her heart; |
| make you her daily vitamin simply because you | | | | be like that gardener watching a fruit as it |
| bring out the best in her in terms of | | | | hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, |
| personality and character. In you, she'll | | | | but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, |
| have found that friend whom she can open up | | | | neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, |
| to, share with and advice each other on the | | | | nor testing it to see if it is ready. And |
| rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of | | | | then, one day he holds out his hand and the |
| life. Don't forget to always be there to | | | | fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and |
| celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear | | | | eager to be eaten. |
| when the girl needs you to listen as a | | | | |
| friend. | | | | The patience and self-control which you |
| | | | practice will make you more attractive and |
| Make the girl feel special; because she's | | | | charming. This will qualify you as her daily |
| someone's friend - your friend, and let her | | | | vitamin and win you that heart hers. |
| know that she too has touched your life in a | | | | |
| unique way like no one else could. Compliment | | | | I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams |
| her for her company and for being there when | | | | ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and |
| you needed her, when you felt sad and all | | | | make her feel the happiest girl in the world! |