| Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is | | | | offers you and for making you smile. |
| much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a | | | | In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your |
| car which you can always bargain for, there is | | | | world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. |
| nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl | | | | Always dream with her, build with her, and always |
| of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be | | | | cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how |
| discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your | | | | you always think about her even when you try not |
| feelings for her can only be communicated not by | | | | to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your |
| the words of the mouth, but by the words of the | | | | first thing in the morning and the last thing when you |
| heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big | | | | go to bed at night. |
| your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady. | | | | Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you |
| The first dating idea for any man is to make a good | | | | slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and |
| impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, | | | | gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her |
| dress or do the common things that all the Toms do | | | | go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the |
| to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all | | | | year round. |
| you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently | | | | You have to be creative and constructive to keep |
| - indecency can make one be mistaken for | | | | girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one |
| arrogance; watch your language - obscene language | | | | time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both |
| gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured | | | | deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on |
| and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or | | | | the table and started sharing our feelings for each |
| smoke like any other loser. | | | | other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be |
| How to make her fall in love with you? Take your | | | | some fun. There was also this time that we were in |
| time. Add some romance to your dating style. When | | | | the library and we decided we are not going to |
| in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in | | | | speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note |
| our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to | | | | on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she |
| get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from | | | | replied and on and on we carried on our love on |
| the other guys. I wrote her three letters without | | | | paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole |
| disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; | | | | rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys |
| all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter | | | | sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal |
| contained the meaning of her name, this I got by | | | | than their studies. Such are the things that made the |
| playing around with the initials of her name to make | | | | girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting |
| meaning. The second was a funny message that | | | | that we play deaf and dump two years after we |
| could only be read backwards and it was all about | | | | broke up, can you imagine that? |
| her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I | | | | Never fail to phone her, even when she least |
| told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower | | | | expects it. I once called some girl that I was |
| from her admirer, but only if she could be kind | | | | interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When |
| enough to phone him using a number that I had | | | | inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I |
| included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very | | | | was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their |
| night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret | | | | loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing |
| Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. | | | | early the next morning, she was at my door with a |
| Later she told me that was so creative of me, no | | | | king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates |
| one had approached her in that manner. I made her | | | | you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding |
| fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic | | | | moves after any date, just drop her home and with |
| manner. | | | | a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss |
| Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to | | | | her when she expects you to. Your respect as a |
| get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. | | | | gentleman will be earned on how patient you are |
| You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to | | | | with her when it comes to such matters as kissing |
| be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be | | | | her and accessing her inner graces. |
| needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll | | | | The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you |
| get to know what she's into, what she likes and | | | | can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try |
| dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon | | | | to show her that men are also hard to get at times. |
| friendship and it always leaves individuals better off | | | | Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a |
| having known each other should they break up. I and | | | | little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and |
| my College steady were to break some time later | | | | very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By |
| but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure | | | | this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is |
| that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will | | | | truthful and is characterized by open and honest |
| make her create room for you in her heart. | | | | communication, honestly promise her your everlasting |
| A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she | | | | devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love |
| can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please | | | | for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there |
| don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that | | | | for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll |
| friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and | | | | always do your best to make her happy, and feel |
| restoring hope back into her life when she looses | | | | loved. |
| hope. This above all other things will make you her | | | | Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like |
| daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in | | | | that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the |
| her in terms of personality and character. In you, | | | | tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising |
| she'll have found that friend whom she can open up | | | | tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor |
| to, share with and advice each other on the rights | | | | pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And |
| and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget | | | | then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit |
| to always be there to celebrate the good times, and | | | | simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be |
| to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a | | | | eaten. |
| friend. | | | | The patience and self-control which you practice will |
| Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's | | | | make you more attractive and charming. This will |
| friend - your friend, and let her know that she too | | | | qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that |
| has touched your life in a unique way like no one else | | | | heart hers. |
| could. Compliment her for her company and for being | | | | I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, |
| there when you needed her, when you felt sad and | | | | make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the |
| all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl | | | | happiest girl in the world! |