| Let's get started. Getting a girl of | | | | comfort the girl offers you and for |
| your dreams is much like getting the car | | | | making you smile. |
| of your dream. But unlike a car which | | | | In your day to day talks, share your |
| you can always bargain for, there is | | | | dreams, your world, and every aspect of |
| nothing like a 20 percent discount in | | | | your life with your girl. Always dream |
| courting the girl of your dreams, she's | | | | with her, build with her, and always |
| so sweet a thing to be discounted, you | | | | cheer her on and encourage her. Tell |
| dearly are in love with her and your | | | | your girl how you always think about her |
| feelings for her can only be | | | | even when you try not to think about |
| communicated not by the words of the | | | | her. Let the girl know that she's your |
| mouth, but by the words of the heart. | | | | first thing in the morning and the last |
| Getting the girl actually depends on how | | | | thing when you go to bed at night. |
| big your heart is - faint heart, never | | | | Her knowing that you were thinking of |
| won fair lady. | | | | her when you slipped beneath the |
| The first dating idea for any man is to | | | | softness of your blanket and gave in to |
| make a good impression. In your doing | | | | the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her |
| so, you don't have to talk, dress or do | | | | go 'my my' and her heart will sing your |
| the common things that all the Toms do | | | | name all the year round. |
| to get a decent girl's attention. Be | | | | You have to be creative and constructive |
| unique, that's all you need. Be a man of | | | | to keep girl's interest in you so full |
| his own style. Dress decently - | | | | of life. I remember one time I told my |
| indecency can make one be mistaken for | | | | girlfriend to be to imagine we are both |
| arrogance; watch your language - obscene | | | | deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each |
| language gives the impression of | | | | other on the table and started sharing |
| immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; | | | | our feelings for each other using eyes |
| be a man of good habits - don't drink or | | | | and hand signs. It turned out to be some |
| smoke like any other loser. | | | | fun. There was also this time that we |
| How to make her fall in love with you? | | | | were in the library and we decided we |
| Take your time. Add some romance to your | | | | are not going to speak to each other |
| dating style. When in College I had a | | | | verbal, so I wrote a love note on a |
| crush on the most beautiful lady in our | | | | paper and passed it across the table to |
| first year lot. Though all senior guys | | | | her, she replied and on and on we |
| were out to get that girl, I managed to | | | | carried on our love on paper |
| divert her attention from the other | | | | conversation till we almost exhausted a |
| guys. I wrote her three letters without | | | | whole rim of paper. At sometime, I |
| disclosing my identity and slid into her | | | | noticed that some guys sited with us on |
| room secretly; all I said was 'Yours | | | | the table were enjoying our ordeal than |
| Secret Admirer.' The first letter | | | | their studies. Such are the things that |
| contained the meaning of her name, this | | | | made the girl embrace my world. I |
| I got by playing around with the | | | | remember her suggesting that we play |
| initials of her name to make meaning. | | | | deaf and dump two years after we broke |
| The second was a funny message that | | | | up, can you imagine that? |
| could only be read backwards and it was | | | | Never fail to phone her, even when she |
| all about her physique and her | | | | least expects it. I once called some |
| smartness. In the third letter I told | | | | girl that I was interested in at four |
| the girl to be ready to receive a rose | | | | o'clock in the morning. When inquiring |
| flower from her admirer, but only if she | | | | of what I was doing up so early, I told |
| could be kind enough to phone him using | | | | her I was in thirteenth heaven, where |
| a number that I had included in the | | | | people think of their loved ones when |
| letter. The girl did phone me that very | | | | they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early |
| night, and her first words to me were, | | | | the next morning, she was at my door |
| "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of | | | | with a king-sized hug for me. No matter |
| our love affair came to be. Later she | | | | how many dates you take her, don't make |
| told me that was so creative of me, no | | | | any elbow - exceeding moves after any |
| one had approached her in that manner. I | | | | date, just drop her home and with a |
| made her fall in love with me and made a | | | | friendly handshake, wish her good night. |
| date in the romantic manner. | | | | Don't kiss her when she expects you to. |
| Befriending and understanding the girl | | | | Your respect as a gentleman will be |
| you are out to get is the next important | | | | earned on how patient you are with her |
| thing. This is what I also did. You have | | | | when it comes to such matters as kissing |
| to understand that as a lady, she loves | | | | her and accessing her inner graces. |
| to be loved, adores to be adored and | | | | The writing is on the wall that you want |
| needs to be needed. This will move you | | | | her, but you can't have her just yet. |
| closer to the girl and you'll get to | | | | Increase your demand. Try to show her |
| know what she's into, what she likes and | | | | that men are also hard to get at times. |
| dislikes, and what her style is. Love is | | | | Make her realize that when she feels a |
| built upon friendship and it always | | | | little dizzy, a little tired, a little |
| leaves individuals better off having | | | | sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very |
| known each other should they break up. I | | | | much cold, she's actually missing |
| and my College steady were to break some | | | | vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so |
| time later but to date, we are the best | | | | much into you and since love is truthful |
| of buddies. Be sure that bringing out | | | | and is characterized by open and honest |
| the selflessness friend in you will make | | | | communication, honestly promise her your |
| her create room for you in her heart. | | | | everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, |
| A shoulder to lean on and some good | | | | and your unconditional love for a |
| friend that she can always turn to is | | | | lifetime. Prove to her that you'll |
| all that a lady wants. Please don't | | | | always be there for her, to listen and |
| hesitate to be helpful and supportive. | | | | to hold her hand, and that you'll always |
| Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of | | | | do your best to make her happy, and feel |
| hardworking and restoring hope back into | | | | loved. |
| her life when she looses hope. This | | | | Remember, patience is the key to her |
| above all other things will make you her | | | | heart; be like that gardener watching a |
| daily vitamin simply because you bring | | | | fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after |
| out the best in her in terms of | | | | day admiring it, but, exercising |
| personality and character. In you, | | | | tremendous self-discipline, neither |
| she'll have found that friend whom she | | | | feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor |
| can open up to, share with and advice | | | | testing it to see if it is ready. And |
| each other on the rights and wrongs, the | | | | then, one day he holds out his hand and |
| dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to | | | | the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, |
| always be there to celebrate the good | | | | warm and eager to be eaten. |
| times, and to lend an ear when the girl | | | | The patience and self-control which you |
| needs you to listen as a friend. | | | | practice will make you more attractive |
| Make the girl feel special; because | | | | and charming. This will qualify you as |
| she's someone's friend - your friend, | | | | her daily vitamin and win you that heart |
| and let her know that she too has | | | | hers. |
| touched your life in a unique way like | | | | I wish you to meet the girl of your |
| no one else could. Compliment her for | | | | dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with |
| her company and for being there when you | | | | you, and make her feel the happiest girl |
| needed her, when you felt sad and all | | | | in the world! |
| alone. Show appreciations for the | | | | |